{"id":5368,"date":"2019-10-31T11:05:18","date_gmt":"2019-10-31T18:05:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thinkyourself.com\/?p=5368"},"modified":"2021-09-14T06:45:02","modified_gmt":"2021-09-14T13:45:02","slug":"she-ate-cold-food-to-avoid-having-to-tell","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thinkyourself.com\/fr\/she-ate-cold-food-to-avoid-having-to-tell\/","title":{"rendered":"SHE ATE COLD FOOD TO AVOID HAVING TO TELL&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>Do you know anyone who has ever eaten cold food or something that they did not like at a restaurant, just to avoid having to tell the waiter that their dish was not to their satisfaction, or\u00a0to avoid\u00a0making\u00a0everybody else wait while their food would be warmed up, or even worse, just to avoid attracting any attention to themselves?<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>This may even be YOU. If that happens to someone you know\u00a0more often than others, they may be a Supporter. People with this personality style represent over 60% of the population.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>If you want to know what STYLE-L.I.S.T. you are, <a href=\"https:\/\/thinkyourself.com\/style-list\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">CLICK HERE<\/a> to take the quick test and find out in seconds if you are a THINKER, and INFLUENCER, a SUPPORTER or a LEADER.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Today, I will discuss how to \u00ab\u00a0sell\u00a0\u00bb your idea to an Supporter. Wether you are trying to convince your kid to eat vegetable or selling a contract to a potential customer, this will be very useful to know if you are facing this personality type.<\/div>\n<p>Here is an excerpt from THINK Yourself@ A RELATIONSHIPS PRO, written in collaboration with Maureen Hagan, Personality and Behavioural Expert. This book\u00a0on communication, relationships, sales, collaboration, influence, getting along, uses\u00a0the STYLE-L.I.S.T. personality assessment tool to\u00a0take\u00a0you on\u00a0a journey of discovery, firstly of your own personality style and how to interact with people of other styles.<\/p>\n<h3><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-5369\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/31-supporter_selling.png?resize=428%2C304&#038;quality=80&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"428\" height=\"304\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/31-supporter_selling.png?w=1663&amp;quality=80&amp;ssl=1 1663w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/31-supporter_selling.png?resize=300%2C213&amp;quality=80&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/31-supporter_selling.png?resize=600%2C426&amp;quality=80&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/31-supporter_selling.png?resize=150%2C107&amp;quality=80&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/31-supporter_selling.png?resize=1024%2C727&amp;quality=80&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/31-supporter_selling.png?resize=65%2C46&amp;quality=80&amp;ssl=1 65w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/31-supporter_selling.png?resize=220%2C156&amp;quality=80&amp;ssl=1 220w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/31-supporter_selling.png?resize=141%2C100&amp;quality=80&amp;ssl=1 141w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/31-supporter_selling.png?resize=228%2C162&amp;quality=80&amp;ssl=1 228w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/31-supporter_selling.png?resize=225%2C160&amp;quality=80&amp;ssl=1 225w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/31-supporter_selling.png?resize=490%2C348&amp;quality=80&amp;ssl=1 490w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/31-supporter_selling.png?resize=569%2C404&amp;quality=80&amp;ssl=1 569w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/31-supporter_selling.png?resize=732%2C520&amp;quality=80&amp;ssl=1 732w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/31-supporter_selling.png?resize=86%2C61&amp;quality=80&amp;ssl=1 86w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 428px) 100vw, 428px\" \/>HOW TO SELL TO A SUPPORTER<\/h3>\n<p>What you should focus on when you sell to a Supporter: They buy from those whom they relate to and feel the most loyal, committed and comfortable with, so show personal interest early. Support the relationship with the person, not just the sale. Look for early dissatisfaction. Communicate patiently and ask questions to involve them in the interaction. Ask what they will need to feel comfortable making a decision.<\/p>\n<div>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 300;\">Take the time, be less time-disciplined. Communicate with a slower, friendlier pace and check in with \u201cHow are you doing?\u201d Spend casual time asking about non-business or sale-related questions (about their family, their personal or mutual interests). Be personal and informal, and welcome an \u2018open-conversation\u2019 environment.<\/p>\n<p>To move a Supporter to a decision: Welcome their personal opinion. Develop relationships first (and the sale follows).\u00a0\u00a0Provide personal guarantees and assurance. Minimize risk for the Supporter in any sales process. Ask questions about the purchase and get any concerns out on the table for discussion. Create a vision that helps the Supporter see the positive outcomes and benefits of the sale (short term and long term).<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"font-weight: 900;\">SELLING YOUR SERVICES TO A SUPPORTER:<\/h3>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 300;\">Here are some arguments you would give a Supporter as you are selling them an online course.<\/p>\n<table>\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td width=\"623\">\n<p style=\"font-weight: 300;\">How are your kids?<\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td width=\"623\">\n<p style=\"font-weight: 300;\">With what you learn in this course, you will be able to help a lot of people.<\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td width=\"623\">\n<p style=\"font-weight: 300;\">What do you think about it?<\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td width=\"623\">\n<p style=\"font-weight: 300;\">Do you have any questions I can help you answer?<\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td width=\"623\">\n<p style=\"font-weight: 300;\">Take your time, there is no rush to decide right now.<\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td width=\"623\">\n<p style=\"font-weight: 300;\">How do you see this course benefiting your organization or team?<\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<h3 style=\"font-weight: 900;\">CONVINCE A SUPPORTER TO GO TO A MOVIE:<\/h3>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 300;\">Here is how to convince a Supporter to see a movie with you.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 300;\">You: \u201cCould you see yourself\u00a0doing me a huge favour tonight and come to the new Star Wars movie? I have been wanting to see it for a while.\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 300;\">Supporter: \u201cYes sure!\u201d (More likely, when asking for a favour, the Supporter will be happy to go along.)<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 300;\">You: \u201cLet\u2019s go the same movie theatre as usual and sit where we always do okay?\u201d<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"font-weight: 300;\"><strong>THE KEY NEEDS TO ADDRESS WHEN YOU SELL TO A SUPPORTER ARE:<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 300;\">Talk about other stuff<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 300;\">Timeless<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 300;\">Tailored<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>This was an excerpt from my No.1 Bestseller THINK Yourself@ A RELATIONSHIPS PRO written in collaboration with behaviour Expert Maureen Hagan. 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