{"id":3796,"date":"2018-11-24T13:54:31","date_gmt":"2018-11-24T21:54:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thinkyourself.com\/?p=3796"},"modified":"2021-09-14T06:27:12","modified_gmt":"2021-09-14T13:27:12","slug":"yes-its-quite-uncomfortable-for-a-while","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thinkyourself.com\/fr\/yes-its-quite-uncomfortable-for-a-while\/","title":{"rendered":"YES, IT&rsquo;S QUITE UNCOMFORTABLE FOR A WHILE!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Do you agree that the world is changing at a super fast pace? I find myself constantly having to learn new processes, new ways of doing business, new ways of communicating with my friends and constantly trying to keep up with technology. As soon as I get good at it, it changes again. It is uncomfortable and I feel that I am living on the edge of competence without ever getting there. I used to say: \u00ab\u00a0When I get there&#8230;\u00a0\u00bb Somehow, I feel that there is not &lsquo;there&rsquo;. Now I know that no matter what it is, I am constantly growing.<\/p>\n<p>I have come to the conclusion that I will treat \u00ab\u00a0growing\u00a0\u00bb as\u00a0my playground. I am constantly learning and getting to the next level. So I may as well enjoy the process. I try to get excited when something puts me in an uncomfortable state as I don&rsquo;t have the skill,\u00a0yet. I am willing to learn it and I am aware of the 4 stages of learning.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3797\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Chapter7-ThinkstockPhotos-484051108LOW.jpg?resize=5443%2C3054&#038;quality=89&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"5443\" height=\"3054\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">When I become aware of a new thing that I don&rsquo;t know about, I am already moving from stage one to stage two. My job is to get to stage four as quickly as possible because I know that this sweet spot will only last for a while until another new thing shows up. So let&rsquo;s review these four stages.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">THE FOUR STAGES OF LEARNING<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>\u201cSuccess is no accident. It is hard work, perseverance, learning, studying, sacrifice<br \/>\n<\/em><em>and most of all, love of what you are doing or learning to do.\u201d \u2014 Pele<\/em><\/p>\n<p>UNCONSCIOUS INCOMPETENCE<\/p>\n<p>At first, you don\u2019t know what you\u00a0don\u2019t know. For example of a new technology, maybe you did not even know that this application existed. This is the stage of\u00a0unconscious incompetence. As you are becoming aware that there is something you don&rsquo;t know, you have already stepped over that stage. You are not unconsciously incompetent anymore because you have been made conscious that these techniques or processes or new technology\u00a0exist.<\/p>\n<p>CONSCIOUS INCOMPETENCE<br \/>\nBy being introduced to the idea that something exists, you now know that it is possible. You are not skilled yet, but you know it can be done. This is the stage of\u00a0conscious incompetence. You\u00a0know it exists and you know you are not good at it yet.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>\u00ab\u00a0Not knowing you can&rsquo;t do something is sometimes all it takes to do it.\u00a0\u00bb &#8211; Ally Carter<\/em><\/p>\n<p>CONSCIOUS COMPETENCE<br \/>\nThen it is\u00a0conscious competence. Now you start practising and learning how to become\u00a0good at it. You know what you are doing and your skills become habitual and consistent. You\u00a0still have to consciously think about how to phrase your thoughts and how to apply the techniques that you\u00a0have learned but they become easier.<\/p>\n<p>UNCONSCIOUS COMPETENCE<\/p>\n<p>The last stage is reached when the skills become automatic. This is the ultimate goal. Once you\u00a0are able to make choices without even noticing or thinking about it, you\u00a0have reached the level of\u00a0unconscious competence.<\/p>\n<p>Have you ever been at the wheel of your car and arrived at your destination, and thought to yourself: \u201cAm I already here? How did I even get here? I was not even paying attention.\u201d You don\u2019t have to think anymore about what to do when you see a red light or a green light, you just drive and know the route and everything is automatic.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>\u201cEvery artist was first an amateur.\u201d \u2014Ralph Waldo Emerson<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Once you have done something for a while, you become unconsciously competent and collect unconscious skills.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>\u201cOne of the secrets to staying young is to always do things you don\u2019t know how to do, to keep learning.\u201d \u2014\u00a0Ruth Reichl<\/em><\/p>\n<p>There are lots of things in your life\u00a0that you\u00a0do automatically. You\u00a0never have to pay attention while brushing your teeth in the morning. You\u00a0just do it.<\/p>\n<p>Rest assured. Next time you need to learn something new, continue to practice until you reach unconscious competence, you will get there eventually. You always do. Identify which stage you are at and trust the process.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you agree that the world is changing at a super fast pace? I find myself constantly having to learn new processes, new ways of doing business, new ways of communicating with my friends and constantly trying to keep up with technology. As soon as I get good at it, it changes again. 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