{"id":24216,"date":"2024-06-23T17:03:35","date_gmt":"2024-06-24T00:03:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thinkyourself.com\/?p=24216"},"modified":"2024-06-23T17:41:42","modified_gmt":"2024-06-24T00:41:42","slug":"it-just-doesnt-make-sense","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thinkyourself.com\/fr\/it-just-doesnt-make-sense\/","title":{"rendered":"IT JUST DOESN&rsquo;T MAKE SENSE!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes things don&rsquo;t make sense at all, and we just have to go with it, or we get used to it, learn, and deal with it. This is true for our problems in life as well as for the English language. Watch the video or keep on reading&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>As you know, I am French. Building a business in English was a big challenge for me. I had this voice in my head telling me: \u00ab\u00a0What? You want to become a speaker in English? You don&rsquo;t even speak English! You want to write books in English? It&rsquo;s never going to work. You&rsquo;re not good enough!\u00a0\u00bb So, I had to take my own advice to figure out how I could actually become successful in a different language. I still harbor a little bit of resentment about a few things in the English language, so I thought it would be fun to do a blog about it today.<\/p>\n<p>Let&rsquo;s start with a few of the very controversial words for me as a French Canadian. Why does the alarm go \u00ab\u00a0off\u00a0\u00bb in the morning? Shouldn&rsquo;t it go \u00ab\u00a0on\u00a0\u00bb? The alarm goes off? Why does it go off?<\/p>\n<p><span><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"24256\" width=\"275\" data-init-width=\"515\" height=\"275\" data-init-height=\"515\" title=\"alarm goes off tile jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/alarm-goes-off-tile-jpeg.jpg?resize=275%2C275&#038;quality=89&#038;ssl=1\" data-width=\"275\" data-height=\"275\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 515 \/ 515;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>But yeah, guess what? You just have to deal with it and say, like everybody else, that the alarm goes off instead of on. It doesn&rsquo;t make sense, does it?<\/p>\n<p>How about \u00ab\u00a0abbreviated\u00a0\u00bb? Why is this such a long word? I can&rsquo;t even pronounce it. This totally gets me!<\/p>\n<p><span><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"24236\" width=\"275\" data-init-width=\"556\" height=\"275\" data-init-height=\"556\" title=\"abbreviated\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/abbreviated.jpg?resize=275%2C275&#038;quality=89&#038;ssl=1\" data-width=\"275\" data-height=\"275\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 556 \/ 556;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>I was in a hotel, a big chain, and they had a sign in the bathroom saying that if you want to reuse your towel more than once, you can hang it, and they will not take it, allowing you to reuse it a second time to save the environment. On the other side of that little card was the French translation. Do you know what they wrote? That if you wanted to reuse your towel, you should strangle it. Like hang. Very, very bad translation.<\/p>\n<p>Another one that gets me is why what doctors do is called a \u00ab\u00a0practice\u00a0\u00bb? Why do they have to \u00ab\u00a0practice\u00a0\u00bb on us? I don&rsquo;t get it. Why is it called a practice? This is beyond me. I get beyond myself when I hear that.<\/p>\n<p><span><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"24242\" width=\"275\" data-init-width=\"566\" height=\"275\" data-init-height=\"566\" title=\"doctors practice\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/doctors-practice.jpg?resize=275%2C275&#038;quality=89&#038;ssl=1\" data-width=\"275\" data-height=\"275\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 566 \/ 566;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Then there are contronyms. I&rsquo;m not sure if you&rsquo;ve heard of contronyms. They are words that are the same but mean opposite things. If you \u00ab\u00a0left\u00a0\u00bb the book on the table, the book is still there, but if she \u00ab\u00a0left,\u00a0\u00bb she&rsquo;s gone. She&rsquo;s not there anymore. How complicated is that?<\/p>\n<p>The person investing my money is called a broker! Are they \u2018broke\u2019? So that\u2019s why they need my money? Why do I trust them if they are \u2018broker\u2019 than me? What&rsquo;s the deal?<\/p>\n<p><span><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"24240\" width=\"275\" data-init-width=\"505\" height=\"275\" data-init-height=\"505\" title=\"broker\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/broker.jpg?resize=275%2C275&#038;quality=89&#038;ssl=1\" data-width=\"275\" data-height=\"275\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 505 \/ 505;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Or the slowest traffic time of the day is called \u00ab\u00a0rush\u00a0\u00bb hour. Why do they call that rush hour if it&rsquo;s the slowest time of the day?<\/p>\n<p><span><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"24244\" width=\"275\" data-init-width=\"497\" height=\"275\" data-init-height=\"497\" title=\"rush hour\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/rush-hour.jpg?resize=275%2C275&#038;quality=89&#038;ssl=1\" data-width=\"275\" data-height=\"275\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 497 \/ 497;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Then there are \u00ab\u00a0apart\u00a0\u00bbments. They&rsquo;re called apart. Apart-ments, but they&rsquo;re all stuck together.<\/p>\n<p><span><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"24234\" width=\"275\" data-init-width=\"515\" height=\"275\" data-init-height=\"515\" title=\"appartments\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/appartments.jpg?resize=275%2C275&#038;quality=89&#038;ssl=1\" data-width=\"275\" data-height=\"275\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 515 \/ 515;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>And don&rsquo;t get me started on the letter K. Knife, knee, knight&#8230; Why is it not nife, nee, night? I don&rsquo;t understand why this letter even exists.<\/p>\n<p>Just to say that sometimes things don&rsquo;t make sense, but hey, everybody knows it. We get used to it and we deal with it. I&rsquo;ve learned that we don&rsquo;t pronounce the K in these words, and I&rsquo;ve learned how to deal with all these things. We can get used to it and learn things. Sometimes when things don&rsquo;t make sense, it doesn&rsquo;t matter! The proof? Our English language is filled with a whole bunch of things that don&rsquo;t make sense. But guess what? We can live with it.<\/p>\n<p>So, if there are things in your life that are completely inexplicable, just think about the K in the knife and why what doctors do is called a \u00ab\u00a0practice.\u00a0\u00bb Then get a good laugh and just live with it. It&rsquo;s going to be okay. We&rsquo;re all going to be fine. Bottom line is, if I was able to become a professional speaker in English, then everything is possible. Whatever your dream is, you can do it!<\/p>\n<p>Hope you enjoyed this week\u2019s light blog, and if you\u2019re able to live and get used to all the complicated twists in the English language, there isn\u2019t a challenge you can\u2019t face!<\/p>\n<p>Embrace the chaos, laugh at the quirks, and keep moving forward. Remember, it\u2019s not about the obstacles, but how you handle them!<\/p>\n<p><span><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"24249\" width=\"54\" data-init-width=\"1000\" height=\"73\" data-init-height=\"1344\" title=\"question-mark-sketch-7\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/question-mark-sketch-7.jpg?resize=54%2C73&#038;quality=89&#038;ssl=1\" data-width=\"54\" data-height=\"73\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 1000 \/ 1344;\"><\/span><span><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"23309\" width=\"224\" data-init-width=\"286\" height=\"72\" data-init-height=\"92\" title=\"Screen Shot 2024-01-25 at 12.50.47 PM\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Screen-Shot-2024-01-25-at-12.50.47-PM.png?resize=224%2C72&#038;quality=80&#038;ssl=1\" data-width=\"224\" data-height=\"72\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 286 \/ 92;\"><\/span><span><a href=\"https:\/\/thinkyourself.com\/schedule\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"23846\" width=\"675\" data-init-width=\"1576\" height=\"175\" data-init-height=\"408\" title=\"virtual coffee banner-11\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/virtual-coffee-banner-11.png?resize=675%2C175&#038;quality=80&#038;ssl=1\" data-width=\"675\" data-height=\"175\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 1576 \/ 408;\" data-link-wrap=\"true\"><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><strong><span><span lang=\"EN-US\">Let&rsquo;s Chat!<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span><span lang=\"EN-US\">Book a free 15-min virtual coffee with me, so we can discuss how to find ways to live with the things that sometimes don&rsquo;t make sense!<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Check out some of my previous blog posts&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span><a href=\"https:\/\/thinkyourself.com\/why-is-everybody-so-angry\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"24027\" width=\"257\" data-init-width=\"1135\" height=\"145\" data-init-height=\"640\" title=\"Screen Shot 2024-05-29 at 1.22.53 PM\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Screen-Shot-2024-05-29-at-1.22.53-PM.png?resize=257%2C145&#038;quality=80&#038;ssl=1\" data-width=\"257\" data-height=\"145\" data-link-wrap=\"true\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 1135 \/ 640;\"><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Why Is Everybody So Angry?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span><a href=\"https:\/\/thinkyourself.com\/when-every-solution-has-a-problem\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"24144\" width=\"215\" data-init-width=\"1473\" height=\"121\" data-init-height=\"830\" title=\"Screenshot When every solution has a problem\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Screenshot-When-every-solution-has-a-problem.jpg?resize=215%2C121&#038;quality=89&#038;ssl=1\" data-width=\"215\" data-height=\"121\" data-link-wrap=\"true\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 1473 \/ 830;\"><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><strong>When Every Solution Has a Problem: How to Deal with Negative People<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span><a href=\"https:\/\/thinkyourself.com\/why-are-we-so-tired\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"24190\" width=\"215\" data-init-width=\"713\" height=\"121\" data-init-height=\"400\" title=\"Screenshot Why are we so tired\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Screenshot-Why-are-we-so-tired-e1719085061838.png?resize=215%2C121&#038;quality=80&#038;ssl=1\" data-width=\"215\" data-height=\"121\" data-link-wrap=\"true\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 713 \/ 400;\"><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><\/strong><strong>Why Are We So Tired?<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes things don&rsquo;t make sense at all, and we just have to go with it, or we get used to it, learn, and deal with it. This is true for our problems in life as well as for the English language. Watch the video or keep on reading&#8230; As you know, I am French. Building [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":24217,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"tve_updated_post":"<div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><p>Sometimes things don't make sense at all, and we just have to go with it, or we get used to it, learn, and deal with it. This is true for our problems in life as well as for the English language. Watch the video or keep on reading...<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_responsive_video thrv_wrapper tcb-lazy-load tcb-lazy-load-vimeo\" style=\"\" data-modestbranding=\"0\" data-type=\"vimeo\" data-float=\"false\" data-aspect-ratio=\"1:1\" data-aspect-ratio-default=\"1\" data-url=\"https:\/\/vimeo.com\/966220388\">\n\t\n\n\t<div class=\"tve_responsive_video_container\" style=\"padding-bottom: 100%;\">\n\t\t<div class=\"video_overlay\"><\/div>\n\t<iframe title=\"Responsive Video\" class=\"tcb-responsive-video\" data-code=\"966220388\" data-hash=\"undefined\" data-provider=\"vimeo\" data-src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/966220388?portrait=0&amp;title=1&amp;color=fff&amp;byline=1&amp;autopause=0\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><p>As you know, I am French. Building a business in English was a big challenge for me. I had this voice in my head telling me: \"What? You want to become a speaker in English? You don't even speak English! You want to write books in English? It's never going to work. You're not good enough!\" So, I had to take my own advice to figure out how I could actually become successful in a different language. I still harbor a little bit of resentment about a few things in the English language, so I thought it would be fun to do a blog about it today.<\/p><p>Let's start with a few of the very controversial words for me as a French Canadian. Why does the alarm go \"off\" in the morning? Shouldn't it go \"on\"? The alarm goes off? Why does it go off?<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption\" data-css=\"tve-u-190478642ee\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-24256\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"24256\" width=\"275\" data-init-width=\"515\" height=\"275\" data-init-height=\"515\" title=\"alarm goes off tile jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/alarm-goes-off-tile-jpeg.jpg\" data-width=\"275\" data-height=\"275\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 515 \/ 515;\" data-css=\"tve-u-19047adb6e8\"><\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><p>But yeah, guess what? You just have to deal with it and say, like everybody else, that the alarm goes off instead of on. It doesn't make sense, does it?<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><p>How about \"abbreviated\"? Why is this such a long word? I can't even pronounce it. This totally gets me!<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption\" data-css=\"tve-u-19047899235\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image wp-image-24236\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"24236\" width=\"275\" data-init-width=\"556\" height=\"275\" data-init-height=\"556\" title=\"abbreviated\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/abbreviated.jpg\" data-width=\"275\" data-height=\"275\" data-css=\"tve-u-1904789afe8\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 556 \/ 556;\"><\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><p>I was in a hotel, a big chain, and they had a sign in the bathroom saying that if you want to reuse your towel more than once, you can hang it, and they will not take it, allowing you to reuse it a second time to save the environment. On the other side of that little card was the French translation. Do you know what they wrote? That if you wanted to reuse your towel, you should strangle it. Like hang. Very, very bad translation.<\/p><p>Another one that gets me is why what doctors do is called a \"practice\"? Why do they have to \"practice\" on us? I don't get it. Why is it called a practice? This is beyond me. I get beyond myself when I hear that.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption\" data-css=\"tve-u-1904789ee77\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image wp-image-24242\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"24242\" width=\"275\" data-init-width=\"566\" height=\"275\" data-init-height=\"566\" title=\"doctors practice\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/doctors-practice.jpg\" data-width=\"275\" data-height=\"275\" data-css=\"tve-u-190478a4a6d\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 566 \/ 566;\"><\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><p>Then there are contronyms. I'm not sure if you've heard of contronyms. They are words that are the same but mean opposite things. If you \"left\" the book on the table, the book is still there, but if she \"left,\" she's gone. She's not there anymore. How complicated is that?<\/p><p>The person investing my money is called a broker! Are they \u2018broke\u2019? So that\u2019s why they need my money? Why do I trust them if they are \u2018broker\u2019 than me? What's the deal?<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption\" data-css=\"tve-u-190478a6338\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image wp-image-24240\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"24240\" width=\"275\" data-init-width=\"505\" height=\"275\" data-init-height=\"505\" title=\"broker\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/broker.jpg\" data-width=\"275\" data-height=\"275\" data-css=\"tve-u-190478a8550\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 505 \/ 505;\"><\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><p>Or the slowest traffic time of the day is called \"rush\" hour. Why do they call that rush hour if it's the slowest time of the day?<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption\" data-css=\"tve-u-190478ab27e\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image wp-image-24244\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"24244\" width=\"275\" data-init-width=\"497\" height=\"275\" data-init-height=\"497\" title=\"rush hour\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/rush-hour.jpg\" data-width=\"275\" data-height=\"275\" data-css=\"tve-u-190478ae11d\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 497 \/ 497;\"><\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><p>Then there are \"apart\"ments. They're called apart. Apart-ments, but they're all stuck together.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption\" data-css=\"tve-u-190478b00d4\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image wp-image-24234 tcb-moved-image\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"24234\" width=\"275\" data-init-width=\"515\" height=\"275\" data-init-height=\"515\" title=\"appartments\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/appartments.jpg\" data-width=\"275\" data-height=\"275\" data-css=\"tve-u-190478b2278\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 515 \/ 515;\"><\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><p>And don't get me started on the letter K. Knife, knee, knight... Why is it not nife, nee, night? I don't understand why this letter even exists.<\/p><p>Just to say that sometimes things don't make sense, but hey, everybody knows it. We get used to it and we deal with it. I've learned that we don't pronounce the K in these words, and I've learned how to deal with all these things. We can get used to it and learn things. Sometimes when things don't make sense, it doesn't matter! The proof? Our English language is filled with a whole bunch of things that don't make sense. But guess what? We can live with it.<\/p><p>So, if there are things in your life that are completely inexplicable, just think about the K in the knife and why what doctors do is called a \"practice.\" Then get a good laugh and just live with it. It's going to be okay. We're all going to be fine. Bottom line is, if I was able to become a professional speaker in English, then everything is possible. Whatever your dream is, you can do it!<\/p><p>Hope you enjoyed this week\u2019s light blog, and if you\u2019re able to live and get used to all the complicated twists in the English language, there isn\u2019t a challenge you can\u2019t face!<\/p><p>Embrace the chaos, laugh at the quirks, and keep moving forward. Remember, it\u2019s not about the obstacles, but how you handle them!<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption\" data-css=\"tve-u-6678ae490fe7c3\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image wp-image-24249\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"24249\" width=\"54\" data-init-width=\"1000\" height=\"73\" data-init-height=\"1344\" title=\"question-mark-sketch-7\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/thinkyourself.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/question-mark-sketch-7.jpg\" data-width=\"54\" data-height=\"73\" data-css=\"tve-u-190478c81ab\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 1000 \/ 1344;\"><\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption\" data-css=\"tve-u-6678ae490fe7e1\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image wp-image-23309\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"23309\" width=\"224\" data-init-width=\"286\" height=\"72\" data-init-height=\"92\" title=\"Screen Shot 2024-01-25 at 12.50.47 PM\" loading=\"lazy\" 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